Kiri’s Story
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One day about 15 years ago, I walked into the central office of the humanities department of San Juan College, where I am the program director of KSJE FM, public radio. The head of humanities wife> Laura, sat with a beautiful little dog on her lap. Falling instantly in love with its huge eyes, I asked if I could hold it. She said yes and I gathered the little ball of golden fur into my arms.
The woman told me she had taken the dog away from a drunk who was beating her at a gas station. I looked at the dog’s black muzzle, exquisite pointed ears, her delicate white feet, and her sassy, stub of a tail and wondered how anybody could be so cruel to a creature with such a sweet face. It resembled a fox’s. The little body I was holding felt sturdy like a Red Heeler’s. The thought of anyone desecrating it brought tears to my eyes. I asked Laura why she had brought the dog into the office. She her household had too many pets, and this one needed a home. I said I’d take her.
The dog was sweet and shy when Laura’s husband Chris brought her to me. I named her after a very gentle opera singer I once interviewed, Dame Kiri Te Kanawa. Dame Kiri had come to New Mexico to sing with the New Mexico Symphony. She who could have sung in any opera house she wished said, “I hope the Albuquerque audiences like me.” It takes a lot to shut a reporter up, and that comment did the trick to this one. The wistful pleading gaze the little dog turned on me after Chris put her in my living room and walked out the door brought the incident with Dame Kiri to mind. The dog could have no other name.
Kiri slowly explored my house over the next few days. At first, she barely let me touch her, but eventually she learned to trust me. When friends came over, she’d hide from the women and snarl at tall men. I would gather her in my arms, pet her and tell her everything would be okay. Gradually she learned to trust the people around me. Soon she was a regular puppy, chewing stuff, escaping the yard, not making it outside. But I only had to tell her once after she did something wrong and she never did it again.
She learned to sit, stay, and come very fast. I taught her to roll over for a dog cookie. One day I had just measured her food into its bowl when the phone rang. Getting involved in the conversation, I set her bowl on the counter and turned away from her. Next thing, I heard clunk, clunk, clunk. I turned to discover her rolling over and over all the way to the entrance to the living room. When she got there, she rolled back. Naturally, I interrupted the phone call to feed her. Later that evening, I was engrossed in a TV program. She pawed me, and when I only half responded, that little squirt rolled over to get my attention. Don’t tell me dogs can’t think.
I got her a companion, a setter Lab cross named Ben. They communicated with each other in ways I could never figure out. Ben loved to be outside and would spend hours romping in the yard. Kiri always knew when he wanted to come in, but I didn’t always. Sometimes they had doggie arguments, standing nose to nose growling. After a while, they’d step back, shake themselves and wag their tails. They often touched each other on the nose, as if they were kissing.
Reel forward a few years. I gradually had worked my way into the creative writing community in my little town of Farmington. A sturdy fireplug of a woman with iron gray hair named Gwynne Spencer lived just over the Colorado border from us. She wrote for kids and did art therapy projects with trouble youngsters. If a sick animal existed in the universe, she’d find it, nurse it, and seek a home for it. I told her about Kiri and Ben.
She said, “You know, Kiri’s story would be a great one for abused kids who aren’t ready to read about humans who have been abused, but need something to help them get their feelings out. Write a story from Kiri’s point of view.”
Fascinated by the idea of understanding life as a dog, I read about their keen senses of hearing and smell; their abilities as service, police, therapy, and companions, and set to work. “Belle’s Star,” with Kiri as the central character and Ben in a supporting role, came out in August 2009. The story empowers youngsters 8-12 to cope with life’s tough stuff. It tries to teach them that while they may not be able to help what the world does to them, they can choose how to respond to it. Belle was nominated for a New Mexico Book Award in 2009 and it won a Mom’s Choice Award for 2010. With “Belle’s Star’ comes an activity book written by retired school counselor, and award winning journalist, Margaret Cheasebro, who lives in Farmington. Parents, teachers, counselors, and youth organizations to use to discuss issues important to becoming a responsible adult. “Bell’s Star” is illustrated by nationally known artist, John Cogan. www.johncogan.com
My publisher, Artemesia Publishing (apbooks.net) has asked for a sequel, to “Belle’s Star” so “Belle’s Trial,” which stresses self-discipline, will come out next summer. Later, Belle will encounter show dogs, police and or rescue dogs, service dogs, and therapy dogs. In each book, she will learn something. Each volume will come with an activity book.
Ben has gone whenever good dogs go when they finish their lives here, but Kiri is still very much with me. Through all the writing and editing of Belle, Kiri has come and laid her head on my lap wile I sit at the computer. She attends book signings with me. Because of her, I am having a wonderful adventure I never would been able to enjoy had I not walked into the humanities office at San Juan College one particular day. I hope I am helping some kids who need guidance, and providing a fun story for others. Kiri and I have a special relationship. I give her shelter and love; she returns love and inspiration. I have never felt like I owned Dame Kiri. Laura entrusted her to me. Someone Up There made her do that for a purpose. I will always cherish my little fox faced girl. When she joins Ben, I shall always have her memory.




I am particularly touched by this story, and I admire your friend for having the strength and courage to take an animal away from an abusive owner. You really seem to have a fondness and understanding or your animals, that coupled with your fascination for them
make me very interested in your stories. I look forward to reading them. Therapists have been discovering over the past decade the effects an animal can have on the elderly and the abused, allowing them to bond quicker and in a more dependable and personal way than humans often allow. I get the sense from your story that these animals have changed your life, and that lifts my heart. I am sure you have changed theirs. Thank you.
chas.pike
Joanne Reply:
February 19th, 2010 at 3:14 pm
It is amazing how one dog can touch so many lives. Dame Kiri’s story is an inspiration to us all.
Connie and Kiri have taken a lemon and turned it into lemonade. The story of “Belle’s Star” inspried by Kiri is a strong lesson to young people and adults alike that rescuing an abused dog can enrich your life. Connie is masterful in telling the story from the dog’s point of view. Dogs are more close to human in thought and action than many people realize. Connie’s stories help us see that dogs are far more than “dumb animals” without feelings.
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I often wonder about folks who say “he was/is/acted like nothing but an animal.” There’s nothing like the inhumanity of so called human beings. Give me an animal any day – they understand loyalty, being with you and devotion. Wonderful story. You’re wished many years of comfort together.
When I illustrated Belle’s Star, I (obviously) used Kiri for my model. Although very timid, she was so cooperative that it was a joy working with her. She formed an immediate rapport with the young lady we used to model for the heroine of the story. I am now working on sketches for the sequel and look forward to spending more time with Kiri.
The love you have with Kiri is shown in your books about Belle’s Star. Thank you very much for being creative enough to describe this.
A lovely and inspirational story. I’m glad I started my workday reading it.
Kiri stole my heart. As abused kids should. I was abused and understand the need for kids to have someone to relate to, Kiri is perfect.
What a heartwarming story. I’ve always felt that animals (dogs especially) are great healers who are somehow in touch with and, perhaps, accessible to things that humans aren’t. And I love how you incorporated your own personal story into a medium that can now help other abused children learning to heal from their collective trauma. Well done!
The story o Kiri’s rescue is wonderful. I am going to order a copy of Belle’s Star for my 8 yr. old grandson.
Your story is very moving. It so beautifully demonstrates the close bonds that can form between humans and their pets.
Kiri is a very lucky dog, and so is Connie Gotsch. When I wrote the activity books for Belle’s Star and for Belle’s Trial, I got to know Kiri. She is such a sweet dog, and she and Connie have a very loving relationship. Even though Kiri isn’t wild about signing books at book signings, she willingly lets her paw be placed on a stamp pad, then gently pressed onto a page of the book. Who could have guessed that an abused puppy would become an autograph signing dog whose story inspired books that help children learn to cope in responsible and healthy ways to the challenges in their lives?
Having met Kiri and seen the two of you together it is obvious the love you have for each other. It is so wonderful that you have taken her story and helped so many with it. Thank you for sharing.
I love all of Connie’s doggie stories, including her book Belle’s Star! I also love her for her generosity promoting other authors on her Four Corners radio show!
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Carolyn Howard-Johnson
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Ah, that animals have the strength of character to rise above the suffering imposed on them is remarkable. That humans can notice and appreciate these beings called pets requires a steady eye and a willing heart. Good for Kiri, good for Connie.
thank you one and all! Your comments are all very sweet.
It’s wonderful to have such a caring person and a talented one as well all in the same wrapper as is Connie Gotsch.
Her feelings for Kiri make “Belle Star” a wonderful vehicle for abused and other children.
I have always enjoyed the company of Connie and Kiri (and Ben). I am so glad to read this story and even though I have heard a shortened version of it before I learned more about Kiri’s life as a puppy. It was truly a match made in heaven because I can tell Kiri is a very happy dog and I know Connie loves Kiri you can see it when they are together.
I love the idea that one special being could connect and inspire something that would save so many children (of all ages). I have been told stories of dogs that woke their masters to warn them of the house on fire or going for help when the master was stranded and injured but as a family therapist to have a dog open the door for an abused or neglected child is no less compelling or significant.
Kiri and Connie found each other and their mutual benefit is obvious. And teaching children about abuse through this touching “abused pet” story is a good way to help children learn about what constitutes abuse, helps them to learn that healing and support can be found, and that animals “have feelings too.”
I’m so glad the benefits of such a personal and inspiring story are helping children…and animals of the paw-signing kind.
I met Kiri some years ago when Connie invited me to her home. What a bundle of fun that little dog is. Reading Connie’s story touched my heart. I have heard bits and pieces of Kiri’s story before, but seeing this in print brought all those bits and pieces together for me. I am so happy for both Connie and Kiri that they have made their story into something inspirational and yet FUN for kids of all ages.
22 February 2010
A lot of children own pets. I wonder how many of them think of them as anything other than nice furry, cute little animals that must be fed, watered, taken to the Vet and groomed now and then.
Learning to see the world through Kiri’s eyes may teach them there is a loving, thinking individual wanting to communicate with others. Those cute little pets not only see better and hear better than humans they often empathize better than humans. What a blessing it is to know where you can get a helping hand and a sloppy kiss when you need one.
Connie has written a book that any child with a pet, or who wants a pet, would love to have.
DonnaLee Wheeler
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Thank You,Connie for touching story about making life better for cute Kiri and people around.
Arkady Fomin
I have rescued dogs for 30 years and worked in training programs for service dogs. Clearly Connie captured the impotant fact that dogs are intelligent, caring beings that seem to transcend their sad beginnings. I beleive Belle will help do the same for abussed children. Connie cetainly knows that our dogs take us on a rich adveture that is always worth traveling.
Kiri is a special girl who’s seen hard times and risen above them. Dogs are so great; all it takes is a caring human to bring out the best in them.
This story is a good example of how dogs can not only become part of our lives but of our work, as well. And it’s inspiring that Connie Gotsch has used the story to help kids.
I love how you were able to take this personal experience of love and healing and make it available to young people who need this in their lives also. Thanks for sharing this story.
What a wonderful story. Truly inspiring.
Thank you for such an inspiring story.
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Lovely story, Connie.
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The story of how you found Kiri, and what she has meant to you since she came into your life, is a moving piece of writing. It seems so right that she’s the inspiration for “Belle’s Star.”
The more I hear about Dame Kiri, the more special she becomes.
I have observed Connie with her dogs many times. Connie’s love for her dogs is very obvious…sometimes to the exclusion of her “human” friends. But that simply adds to my admiration of both the dogs and their mistress. They all have my love!